OMWANA OW’ENGESO - A DISCIPLINED CHILD

A DISCIPLINED CHILD

BY DICK FRANCIS TUMUSIIME

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OMWANA OW’ENGESO

KA DICK FRANCIS TUMUSIIME

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ENYANJURA

Haroho emirwa buli muzaire ayegonba omwana we abe nayo baitu itwe nka’bazaire obwire obundi tulekera obujunanizibwa ab’egesa kandi nabo orundi abatatunga obwire okwegesa engeso hali abaana baitu. Orundi tukyetegereza akasumi kagenzere muno ngu abaana baina kwega nibaraba omiringo egumire.

Akatabu kanu kali omundimi ez’enzaarwa ezikwahukana nka Oruganda, Oruteso, Orunyankole n’ezindi omubwire obw’omaiso.

INTRODUCTION

There are some values every parent desires his/her child to possess but we as parents sometimes leave the responsibility to the parents who also may not have time to teach discipline to our children. We may find out when it is too late that the children have to learn through “hard knocks”

This book appears in local languages like Luganda, Ateso, Runyankore and others in future.

HABWAKI AKATABU KANU?

WHY THIS BOOK?

Ebiro binu haroho ebintu bingi ebitubaho biri nk’oburorwaaho obw ‘okusisikara engeso

Okuteekwa kuba obirozire ha telefayina rundi obisomere omumpapura z’amakuru rundi obijuliire n’amaiso gaawe. Osakutabisemba baitu kandi osobora kutaba nabwire bw’okuhabura buli ebikorwa nk’ebyo obu byolekebwa ha ntimbe za telefayina.

Kozesa akatabu kanu n’omwana waawe okumuhabura kandi okumuheereza ebyokuroorwaho ebyomugaso kumwetegeresesa ensonga.

Ebyokuroorwaho eby’engeso embi omubicweka byaitu ebyenyikara nibyo binu baitu hatali binu byonka

These days there are many things that happen around us which are indicators of high moral degeneration.

You must have watched them on T.V or read them in the newspapers or witnessed them with your eyes. You will not approve of them but you may not have time for parental guidance every time such actions are televised. Use this book with your child to guide him/her and give more relevant examples to drive to the point home.

Examples of indiscipline in our society include but are not limited to:

·        Kurwanira ebyokulya ha bijaguzo

Fighting for food at public functions

·        Okuvuga kubi ha nguudo zaitu

Bad driving on our roads

·        Enganaana zeitaka ezirugiraamu obundi n’okufa

Land disputes that sometimes lead to death

·        Obutakengangana omaka okutwaaramu aba  nyina eka, nyinabwenge n’abaana

Domestic violence that involves husbands, wives and children

·        Okunagiriza emirimo

Neglect of duty

·        Okunagiriza amaka

Abandoning of families

·        Kusiisa eby’obuhangwa

Environmental abuse

·        Abasuubuzi abamu batunda eby’amaguzi ebisisikaire rundi ebitahikire omubipimo

Some traders sell expired goods or underweight goods

·        Abakuru babaza ebisuba omumaiso g’abaana

Adults tell lies in presence of children

·        Abazaire abamu batwara omuka ebintu ebibirwe kubikozesa haka

Some parents take home stolen items for domestic use

·        Obunywaani obusisikaire nibusobora kuleterezaho kufwa

A broken relationship can lead to one’s death

Buli bujunanizibwa bwa buli muntu kurora ngu emyaka y’omaiso tegwiire omitego nk’egambirweho erugura

It is everybody’s responsibility to ensure that the next generations do not fall into the same trap

EMIRWA EYI TUKUNIHIRA OMUBAANA BAITU ERI, BAITU TERI ENU YONKA

THE VIRTUES WE EXPECT FROM OUR CHILDREN INCLUDE BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO:

·         Amazima/amananu

Honesty

·         Kulinda obwire

Punctuality

·        Kwetekamu ekitinisa

Respect for self

·        Kutamu abandi ekitinisa

Respect for others

·        Kwerwanaho

Self-initiative

·        Kusemererwa n’abandi

Happiness with others

·        Kuba n’okunihira obwire bwoona

Being hopeful all the time

·         Kuba n’obuntu

Humility

·        Ekisa n’embabazi

Kindness and empathy

·        Kuba n’obujunanizibwa omubuli kimu ekibarukukora

Being responsible in everything they do

·        Kumanya omugaso gw’okusoma

To know the value of education

·        Kumanya omugaso gw’ookora

Knowing the value of work

·        Kugonza Ruhanga n’ihanga lyaabu

Love for God and their country

·        Kwahukaniza amananu hali ekigwiire, nokugumisiriza

Tell right from wrong and being tolerant and truthful

·        Kusiima buli ekibafuna

Being appreciative for what they receive

·        Kuba n’ekisa ekikumara, kugabira abakwetaaga rundi abataina

Being kind enough to donate to the needy

·        Kugonza obusinge omuka, omubicweka byaitu ebyenyikara n’omunsi yoona, n’okugonza abantu boona bataina kusoroora

Being peace loving at home, in the community and in the world, loves all humanity without discrimination.

OMWANA W’ENGESO HAKA

A DISCIPLINED CHILD AT HOME………..

1.     Aimuka kara kusaba

Wakes up early to pray

2.     Aramukya abazaire n’abantu abandi haka

Greets parents and others at home

3.     Asemeza ebisiika n’ebicweka ebindi ebyehingulirize haka

Cleans the rooms and places around home

4.     Asinga amaino nigeera

Brushes the teeth clean

5.     Akonyera ha mirimo ya haka omukwegondeza kwe

Helps with the work at home out of his/her own free will

6.     Acwa enono ze ez’engaro/nez’amaguru obusumi obukiira kuzirinda ziri ngufu

Cuts finger nails/toes regularly to keep them short

7.     Akora omulimo gwoona ogumuhairwe omubwangu

Does any work given to him/her quickly

8.     Tazanira haihi n’omurro omukicumbiro/jokooni

Does not play near fire in the kitchen

9.     Tazanisa ekibiriti n’emisubaho

Does not play with a match box and a candle

10.                        Alengaho nkoku akusobora kutekaniza haka

Tries his/her level best to organize the home

11.                        Tataaha munju n’amaguru rundi enkaito ezina oburofu

Does not enter house with dirty feet/shoes

12.                        Talinguliriza omu dirisa rundiki akahuru k’ekyaburuzo ky’orwigi kurora ekiri omubisiika by’abantu abandi

Does not peep through the window or the key hole of the door to see what is in people’s rooms

13.                        Tamara obwire bwingi ha telefayina omukiikaro kyokusoma

Does not spend too much time on T.V instead of reading

14.                        Talya nabuli mugenyi

Does not eat with every visitor

15.                        Tayebwa kugenda hali bamutumire akagaruka mukuzaana

Does not forget to go where he has been sent and go to play instead

16.                        Atekwa kukora ebintu atakulinda kuragirwa obwire bwoona

Must do things without waiting for instructions all the time

17.                        Tahereza eby’ekwaso kwehara kwoga

Does not give excuses to avoid bathing

18.                        Tayeihulira ebyokulya ebitakahiire

Does not serve him/herself unready food

19.                        Tasoroora bagenyi ki abokuramukya

Does not discriminate which visitors to greet

20.                        Tayanga omubazi ogumuhairwe

Does not dodge medicine given to him/her

21.                        Tanaga rundi kusereka ebijuma/emibazi

Does not throw away or hide tablets/drugs

22.                        Agambira abantu abakwatwaho oburwaire obwaina

Tells the responsible people the sickness he/she has

23.                        Taleka sabuuni omubafu y’amaizi amazire kwogya

Does not leave bar soap in the basin with water after washing

24.                        Atekwa kukora ebintu atakulinda kuragirwa obwire bwoona

Must do things without waiting for instructions all the time

25.                        Tasingorra nasereka ebisasiro hansi ya kapeti

Does not sweep and hide the rubbish under the carpet

26.                        Tatwara/talya ebyokulya by’abaana neby’okunywa

Does not take the children’s food and drinks

27.                        Tagufwora muze kulya omubataahi

Does not make it a habbit to eat at the neighbour’s

28.                        Tanywa sukaali nyingi mu caayi/ensande/amata

Does not take too much sugar in tea/juice/milk

29.                        Talibata n’akati k’amaino aheru y’eidiiro

Does not move with tooth pick outside the dining room

30.                        Tayeihulira ebyokulya bingi ebyatakusobora kumaraho

Does not serve too much food which he/she cannot finish

31.                        Tayolekya ebicweka bye ebyensoni omurwijwiire

Does not expose her “private” body in public

32.                        Agambira abazaire omugenyi abungirege bataroho kandi bwire ki

Tells the parents who visited in their absence and what time

33.                        Ayara ekitabu kyokubyamamu kurungi buli nyenkyakara

Lays the bed properly every morning

34.                        Tatemba miti

Does not climb trees

35.                        Ayogya engoye ze kurungi ateireho n’ezebicweka by’ensoni

Washes his/her clothes well including underwear

36.                        Tazaana n’empuule nka ebinyoobwa, ebicooli n’abiteeka omunyindo n’omumatu

Does not play with seeds like groundnuts, maize by putting them in the nose or the ears

37.                        Tazaana n’ebisoro rundi kubicumira amabaale

Does not play with animals or throw stones at them

38.                        Tatandikiriza n’okulya omukubi(enyama, encu/ensamaaki rundi enkoko) atakaliire ebyokulya

Does not start by eating meat, fish or chicken before the real meal

39.                        Takanyira kanyira omubataahi omubwire bw’ekihuro rundo obwire bw’okulya

Does not frequent the neighbors’ place at meal times

40.                        Takomba sahani amazire kulya

Does not lick the plates after eating

41.                        Tagenda wenka haiziba musana rundi ekiro

Does not go to fetch water at the well alone; either day or night

42.                        Aranga epikopo, esahani n’ebindi ebyatikire atakutiina rundi atakukererwa

Reports any breakages of cups, plates etc without fear or delay

43.                        Takozesa omuswaki gwomuntu ondi rundi kujwara engoye z’abantu abandi

Does not use a tooth brush of another person or put on other people’s clothes

44.                        Tazaanisa amasanyarazi rundiki okugayunga ataikiriziibwe

Does not play with electricity or connect it illegally

45.                        Tafwoka munyanzigwa wa mwene waabu rundi nyakaabu abazaire be owu bagamba aina engesombi

Does not become the enemy of a brother or sister who the parents say he/she is indisciplined

46.                        Tabaza hakibataina omuka rundi kulengesaniza eka yaabu n’ezabandi

Does not talk about what they don’t have at home or compare his/her home with others

47.                        Akwata abantu haka n’obwinganiza

Treats the people at home equally

48.                        Tatahiira enganaana z’abakuru n’abandi

Does not get involved in quarrels of adults or others

49.                        Atangiira kandi n’aramukya abagenyi nabolekya enkeeto/entebe

Welcomes and greets visitors well and shows them seats

50.                        Amaliriza emisomo emuhairwe kukoora omuka kuruga hasomero buli kiro

Completes homework every day

51.                        Tarabyamu maiso omukozi wa haka

Does not minimize the domestic worker

52.                        Akonyera omukozi wa haka, abazaire n’abandi omirimo yahaka

Helps the domestic worker, parents and others with work at home

53.                        Tasaba ebisembo kuruga omubazaire n’abandi habwa omulimo omurungi ogwakozire haka rundi haisomero

Does not ask for prizes from parents or others for good work done at home or at school

54.                        Tarora n’omururu ebyokulya by’abagenyi

Does not look greedily at the visitors’ food

55.                        Ayegendereza muno eby’okwerinda kwe, n’ayegendereza kutalekaho ebyoma ebikozesa amasanyarazi, ayegendereza ebirahuli ebyatikire n’ebindi

Cares so much about his/her safety; cares not to leave electric appliances on, watches out for broken glasses etc

56.                        Taruga muka abazaire be rundi abamuroleera batakimanyire rundi batamuhaire rukusa

Does not leave home without knowledge/permission of parents/ people at home/guardians

57.                        Atiina Ruhanga kandi asaba bulikiro/buliijo kusigikira enyikiriza ye

Fears God and prays everyday according to his/her religion

58.                        Tatina kunyegeera ebizibu mubazaire be orundi kukaguza eki atakwetegereza

Does not fear to report his/her problems to the parents or to ask what he/she does not understand

59.                        Agarura sente ezisigaireho hazibamutumire kugura

Returns balance from what she has been sent to buy

HALI AKALI, OMWANA OW’ENGESO

WHEREVER HE/SHE IS, A DISCIPLINED CHILD

60.                        Ayecuma/anaaba omubiri gwe kurungi muno

Cleans/washes the body very well

61.                        Taguruka gurukira ha ntebe

Does not jump on and off chairs

62.                        Talindiira bamugambe kiki ekyokukora buli kaire

Does not wait to be told what to do every time

63.                        Takebera omunsaho z’abantu abandi batakimanyire rundi batamuhaire rukusa

Does not check other people’s bags without their knowledge/permission

64.                        Asiima buli amuhaire ekintu

Thanks whoever gives him/her something

65.                        Atooza omukama wa sente omuka, omukitebe rundi ekicweka kyoona eky’abantu kandi n’azibaha

Looks for the owner of money found at home, in class or any public place and gives it to him/her

66.                        Tayabuura kusoma ebaruha y’abandi

Does not open to read another’s letter

67.                        Tabaza bisuba/tabiiha

Does not tell lies

68.                        Taikarra muntebe/nkeeto y’abazaire, abegesa rundi abakuru

Does not sit in the parent’s, teacher’s or elder’s seat

69.                        Alinda obwire

Always keeps time

70.                        Tahangirra bagenzi be

Does not implicate others falsely

71.                        Tajuma abandi n’ebigambo rundi n’ebikorwa by’omubiri

Does not abuse others with words or body language

72.                        Tacwa bicwanta hali akasangire

Does not spit anywhere

73.                        Takungana n’abandi

Does not quarrel with others

74.                        Tabaza n’abandi n’acwankuna

Does not talk to others while chewing

75.                        Taikara abihirirwe abandi kumara obusumi buraira

Does not remain angry with others for a long time

76.                        Talisibwa buli kaire

Does not eat all the time

77.                        Tasaba sente hali buli owakabwoine

Does not ask for money from anybody he/she sees

78.                        Tagarukamu ekikaguzo n’acukya omutwe nadiwesi kibubu rundi kigara matu

       Does not answer the question by nodding the head as if he’s deaf or dumb

79.                        Tabaza n’abandi narora hansi

Does not talk to others while looking down

80.                        Tabaza akwasire ebinyaigongo

Does not talk to others with arms/akimbo

81.                        Tabaza n’abandi akwasire munsaho

Does not talk to others while pocketing

82.                        Tarwanira byokulya/endyaaga

Does not fight for food

83.                        Tatahiza/tagurukiza enkarra z’abalinzire

Does not jump a waiting line

84.                        Takwatibwa kiniga akanga kuzaana n’abagenzi be

Does not lose temper and refuse to play with others

85.                        Tataaha mukisiika atakonkoine ha rwigi

Does not enter a room without knocking at the door

86.                        Takomba ebyara bye n’alya

Does not lick his fingers while eating

87.                        Talya nabaza

Does not talk while eating

88.                        Talya bwangu bwangu/n’omururu

Does not eat quickly/greedily

89.                        Tazanisa by’okulya

Does not play with food

90.                        Tairaguza ebiyonjerwe

Does not dirten what has been cleaned

91.                        Tajwara engoye eziragwiire

Does not put on dirty clothes

92.                        Tayanga eki bamuhaire akegomba ebintu by’abandi

Does not refuse an offer only to admire “others” things

93.                        Tabaza baza ataina nsonga/ekigendererwa

Does not talk aimlessly

94.                        Tarabyamu maiso eby’okulya by’abantu abandi

Does not minimize other people’s food

95.                        Taikalira haihi n’abakuru kuhuliriza orunyumyo rwaabu

Does not sit near adults to listen to their talk

96.                        Ateekwa kunaaba omungaro n’esabuuni atakaliire kandi nobu aba amazire kulya

Must wash hands with soap before and after eating

97.                        Tayeihulira

Does not serve him/herself

98.                        Aikalira kurungi hoona hali akali

Sits properly wherever he/she is

99.                        Tanywa mwenge rundi kyona ekitamiiza

Does not take alcohol or any other dangerous drugs

100.Tajwara engoye z’abandi

Does not put on other people’s clothes

101.Tasusura enyindo ye n’engaro amazire kwesaimura.

 Does not clean his/her nose with hands after sneezing

101. Anyegerra abo abamugamba aby’akutekereza tibiri birungi

Reports those who tell him/her what he/she thinks are not good

102. Ateekwa kugenda ha iramizo

Must always go for prayers at church/mosque

103Aramukya abakuru n’ekitinisa

Greets adults with respect

104Tasiisa ebyaakyo

Does not destroy flowers

105Tasambiira ebimera  omusiri

Does not step on plants in the garden

106.Tacwanganiza ruguudo nkoku akasangire rundi kuruzaaniramu

Does not cross the road anyhow or play on it

107. Tajwaara engoye ezitakumuhika kurungi

Does not put on clothes that do not fit him/her very well

108. Tazaanisa esiimu z’abantu abandi

Does not play with other people’s telephones

109 Tazaanira munjura

Does not play in the rain

110. Takohora kandi akabicwa omubantu/omurwijwiire

Does not cough and spit in public

111. Talibata/taraba hagati y’abantu babiri bemereire hamu

Does not walk between two people standing face to face

112. Tanyampira omubantu/omurwijwiire

Does not gas in public

113. Talya byokulya ebisisikaire rundi ebiikaire muno

Does not eat food that is expired or has overstayed

114. Atekaniza ebintu bye byoona omubwiire, ebitabu, engoye n’ebindi

Organizes his/her things all the time; books, clothes, etc

115. Tazanira muruguudo

Does not play on the road

116. Aleeka ekyolooni kiri kyecumi nkoku akisangirege

Leaves the public toilet as clean as he/she found it

117. Talibata wenka omwitumbi

Does not walk alone at night

118. Tatemba kiiruka ky’omuntu watamanyire buli hali akagenda

Does not board a stranger’s vehicle wherever he/she is traveling

119. Habwa okwerinda, tagumya gakoma ebintu ebikusobora kumucumita rundi kumusara nka; enkiinzo, obuwempe, ebirahuli ebyatikire n’ebindi

For safety purposes, he/she avoids picking items that may prick or cut him, e.g needles, razor blades, broken glasses etc

120. Ateekwa kuhimba obutambaara bubiri; akamu kokusiimura /kususura enyindo, akamu k’entuyo rundi ecuucu.

Should carry two handkerchiefs; one for cleaning the nose, another for sweat or dust

121. Taliisibwa mubuli ka rundi mubantu b’atamanyire

Does not eat from any home or stranger’s place

122. Aikara newempe ye eyokucwa enono, taina kukozesa eyomuntu ondi

Carries his/her razor blade for cutting nails, he/she should not use that of another person

123. Agarukamu kandi abaza n’abakuru ayebundaize

Responds to or talks to adults humbly

124. Tabaza kubi bazaire be rundi eka ye

Does not talk ill of his/her parents or home

126. Abaza amananu bulikiro rundi buli nigasobora kumurugiiramu akabi

Tells the truth always except when it is dangerous to his/her life

127. Ayegera omunsobi ez’akozire kandi tagarukamu ensobi ezo ezi baba bamuterereire

Learns from the mistake he/she has made and does not repeat those mistakes he/she has been warned against

128. Anyegeera abo abamuteera rundi abo abamutiinisiriza baitu tarwana nabo

Reports those that beat him/her or those who tease him/her but he does not fight with them

129. Akora ebintu ebihikire obwire bwoona atakufwayo oba abagenzibe bamweta atakenga

Does the right things all the time no matter whether others call him/her a “fool”

130. Akoma ekiteirwe omukikaro kibi nakiteka omukikaro ekihikire rundi nakigarulira omukama wakyo

Picks what has been misplaced and puts it back in its rightful place or gives it back to its owner

131. Tairaguza ekyooloni akakireka atyo, nagamba ngu omukozi arakiyonja

Does not make the toilet dirty and leave it in that state saying that the domestic worker will clean it

132. Agarukamu ebikaguzo kurungi omubwijwire hali kikwetagisa/kisemeriire

He/she answers questions properly in full sentences where necessary

133. Tasuukura ebaruha/ekihandiko ekibamuhaire kutwarayo

Does not open a letter given for delivery

134. Aikiriza ensobi ze kandi n’asaba ekiganyiro

Accepts his/her mistakes and apologizes

135. Taba n’omururu gw’ebyokulya/endyaaga, esente rundi ebyokunywa

Is not greedy for food, money or drinks

136. Alinda obwire

Keeps time

137. Akora omulimo gwe bwangu kandi kurungi

Does his/her duty quickly and well

138. Agarukamu ego taata, rundi ego maama obu aba n’abaza n’abakuru

Answers “yes sir” or “yes madam” when talking to people older than him/her

139. Arora omuntu owakubaza nawe omumaiso hatali hansi

Looks the person he/she is talking to in the face not down on the ground

140. Atamu buli muntu ekitinisa oba ajwaire kubi, mukuru muno, munaku, tali mwegesa we rundi muzaire we

Respects everybody whether he/she is badly dressed, very old, looks poor, he/she is not his/her class teacher or parent

141. Akonkona ha rwigi atakatahire omukisiika nambali hali orwigi

Knocks at the door before he/she enters any room where there is a door

142. Talya ayemereire

Does not eat while standing

143. Tanagiriza ebintu bye

Is not careless with his/her belongings

144. Ahuliriza kurungi kandi n’atwara amagezi agamuhairwe abakuru rundi abegesa nky’omugaso

Listens properly and takes as important the advice given to him/her by adults or teachers

145. Tahandiika ha kisiika ky’omuka, hasomero, omukyolooni rundi ekicweka kindi kyona

Does not write on the wall at home or at school, in the toilet or any other place

     146. Tahesa abanywani be, gamba nkokubabazaho ebintu ebibi hali batali

Does not back bite his friends i.e. talk bad things about them in their absence

 

147. Ahuliriza eradiyo buli bukiba nikisoboka kumanya ebigenda omaiso kandi aina kumanya ekyokwikiriza n’ekyataina kwikiriza, kandi taina kwikiriza buli eki akahuliire(okuhaburwa kw’omuzaire kukwetagisa)

Listens to the radio whenever possible to know what happens around him/her and should know what to believe or not, he/she should not believe everything he/she hears (parental guidance necessary)

OMUKIIRUKA

IN A VEHICLE, he/she……..

148.Tarabya omutwe omudirisa y’ekiruka

Does not pass the head through the window of the vehicle

149.Tabaliza haiguru

Does not talk at the voice of his/her voice

150Ateekwa kuba na sente z’orugendo kandi n’okusasura omubwire

Must have the money for the journey and should pay early enough not to inconvenience the conductor or other passengers by paying at the last minute

HASOMERO, OMWANA W’ENGESO

AT SCHOOL, A DISCIPLINED CHILD………………

151Anyegeera ebi bamwibireho gamba nka ekalaamu, akacumu n’ebindi

Reports what has been stolen from him/her e.g. pens, pencils etc

152Anyegeera omubazaire rundi omurolerezi w’abaisiki hasomero engoye ze obu ziba zitemukire/zitaagukire rundi enkaito ze ikuzire

Reports to the parents or matron when the clothes are torn or the shoes become old

153Tayesereka aheru yesomero obu ahiika akerereirwe

Does not hide outside school when he/she arrives late

154Tasekereza abo abakora kubi omukitebe

Does not laugh at those who perform poorly in class

155Akonyera abandi obu aba akaguziibwe baitu hatali omubikaguzo

Helps others when asked but not during exams

156Taibiira omu beegi bagenzi be nukwo ahike ebikaguzo

Does not copy from classmates in order to pass exams

157Taikiriza omuntu ondi weena okumwibiira ebyahandikire

Does not allow another person to copy from him/her

158Tazaanira omukitebe

Does not play in class

159Tayehaisa nandiki okwetwaara haiguru habwokusoma kurungi

Does not praise him/her or boast of his/ her good performance

160Tateera toko nyingi omukitebe

Does make a lot of noise in class

161Taganjana emiganjaine embi ecwa ebiragiro by’esomero

Does not become a friend of wrong elements who break school rules

162Tayesereka bazaire be habwokuba bakaikwire, rundi bajwaire kubi rundi baiziire ha bigere omukikaro ky’emotoka

Does not hide from his/her parents because of old age or bad dressing, or the parent has come on foot not by car

163Tahindura kiikaro kye hakihandiiko kyokusoma kwe

Does not change his/her position on the report card

164Tayehora mabanja ha duuka y’esomero

Does not get things from the school canteen on credit

165Asaba okusoboorwa kurungi hali omwegesa obwaba atetegeriize

Asks for explanation from the teacher if he/she does not understand

166Obwaba n’agarukamu ebikaguzo, abanza ebiceke nubwo n’agenda  ha bigumu, tikiri kirungi kwanguhiriza

When answering questions, he/she starts with the easy ones and goes to the difficult ones; it is not good to panic

167Atabarukya abeegi bagenzi be abagarukiremu kurungi ebikaguzo, omumizaano, takwatwa ihali habintu ebirungi ebibakozire

Congratulates his/her classmates who have performed well in answering questions, in games; he does not feel jealous of their good work

168Ateekamu ekitinisa ebitekerezo by’abandi, ahuliriza eki bamugambire nubwo nawe nahayo ebitekerezo bye

Respects the ideas of others, listens to what they say then gives his/her ideas

169Tasekereza omwegi mugenzi we owu bafubiire

Does not laugh at his/her classmate who has been punished

170Atamu ekitinisa abegesa boona atakufwayo rundi b’egesa ekitebe kye rundi kwaha

Respects all the teachers no matter whether they teach his/her class or not

171Tayefwoora ngu arwaire rundi kwanga kugya hasomero

Does not pretend to be sick or refuse to go to school

172Taiba akacumu, ekalaamu rundi ebitabu hasomero

Does not steal pens, pencils or books from school

173Takwatibwa ihali habwokuba ngu omwegi  mugenzi we ayegere  kurungi kumusinga

Does not feel jealous because the classmate has performed better than him/her

174Azaana n’abandi baitu tagonza kwikara wenka

Plays with others but does not enjoy being alone

175Tahandiika omubitabu byeisomero rundiki kutemuramu empapura z’omugaso habw’ebigendeerwa bye

Does not write in school text books or pull out important pages for selfish reasons

176Taserekaho bagenzibe ebitabu natekaniza kubikozesa wenka

Does not hide books from other users planning to use them alone

177Alengaho kusoma n’amaani, taba na byekwaso nka “ndi nfuuzi,” “eka yaitu tekora kurungi okubara,” n’ebindi

Does his/her best to study hard; he/she does not look for excuses like “I am an orphan”, “our family is poor at math” etc

178Alengaho nkoku akusobora kusoma empapura z’amakuru, haw’amakuru gensi yoona, kandi aina kusoma ebintu ebyenyahukana bingi hatali eby’emizaano n’obukulembezi byona

Tries as much as possible to read newspapers for news from around the world and should read a variety of things not only sports or politics

HASIMU

ON TELEPHONE, he/she…….

179Abaza n’obwebundaazi baitu hatali ngu “niiwe oha?” “tinkuhuura”

Speaks politely not like “who are you?”, “I don’t hear you”

OMUDIINI/ENYIKIRIZA

IN RELIGION, he/she……….

180Ateekamu ekitinisa ediini ye kandi aha ekitinisa enyikiriza z’abantu abandi ezikwahukana hali eye

  Respects his/her religion and respects the beliefs of other people which                are different from his/hers

BAZAHO NABINU N’ABAZAIRE BAAWE/OMW’EGESA

PLEASE DISCUSS THESE WITH YOUR PARENTS/TEACHER

1.     Enjwara enungi niyo eraha?

What is good “dress code?”

2.     Enjwara embi niyo eraha?

What is bad “dress code?”

3.     Amananu kiki?

What is “truth?”

4.     Okubagana okurungi nukwo kuraha?

What is good “sharing?”

5.     Orulimi orubi orukuhemura nurwo ruraha?

What is bad “obscene language?”

6.     Okugumangana kiki?

What is “complicity?”

7.     Kweragira/kwetwaara kiki?

What is “self-initiative?”

8.     Omugaso gwabinu nugwo guraha?

What is the importance of the following?

·        Kuramukya

Greeting

·        Okusaba ekiganyiro

Asking for forgiveness (apologizing)

·        Kuganyira abandi

Forgiving others

·        Kusaba orusa

Asking for permission

·        Okugumisiriza

Patience

·        Okwetegya/kalisoliiso okurungi

Good observation skills

·        N’ebindi (gazihya entekereza yaawe)

And others (stretch your imagination)

NK’OMUZAIRE, OYOLEKA EKYOKUROORWAHO EKIRUNGI?

AS A PARENT, DO YOU SHOW A GOOD EXAMPLE?

ENKAARA Z’EBAIBULI EZ’OMUGASO EZ’OKUTEKWA KUSOMA

IMPORTANT BIBLICAL VERSES YOU MUST READ

a)     Petero y’okubanza, esuura itanu, orukaara rw’akatanu (kuba mwehumbeki)

1 Peter 5: 5 (being humble)

b)    Abakolosaayo, esuura isatu, orukaara rw’amakumi abiri(obuhulizi hali abazaire)

Colossians 3: 20 (obedience to parents)

c)     Abaheburayo, esuura ikumi naisatu, orukaara rw’akatanu (kumarwa)

Hebrew 13:5 (contented)

d)    Okuruga, esuura y’amakumi abiri, orukaara rweikumi naibiri(kutamu abazaire ekitinisa)

Exodus 20:12 (respect for parents)

e)     Petero y’okubanza, esuura itanu, orukaara rw’omukaaga (kuba mwehumbeki)

1 peter 5:6 (being humble)

f)      Enfumo, suura abiri naibiri, orukaara rw’omukaaga(ekyokuroorwaho ekirungi ky’abazaire)

Proverbs 22:6 (good example of parents)

g)     Enfumo, suura musanju, orukaara rw’omusanju (okuhabura kw’eminyeto)

Proverbs 7:7 (guidance for youth)

h)    Abefeso, suura mukaaga, orukaara rw’akana (okworora okurungi)

Ephesians 6:4 (good parenting)

i)       Abefeso, suura ina, orukaara rw’asatu naibiri (embabazi)

Ephesians 4:32 (kindness)

j)       Ebiragiro, suura abiri n’emu, orukaara rw’ikumi namunana kuhika harw’abiri n’emu

Deut. 21:18-21

k)     Enfumo, suura ikumi naisatu, orukaara, orukaara rw’amakumi abiri (emiganjaine embi)

Proverbs 13:20 (bad company)

l)       Enfumo, suura emu, orukaara rw’omunana kuhika ha rw’amwenda (kutamu ekitinisa abazaire)

Proverbs 1:8-9 (respect for parents)

m)  Enfumo, suura abiri n’aibiri, orukaara rw’ikumi naitanu (kutereera engeso)

Proverbs 22:15 (disciplining)

n)    Enfumo, suura abiri n’amwenda, orukaara rw’ikumi namusanju (kworoora)

Proverbs 29:17 (parenting)

o)    Kuruga, suura abiri n’emu, orukaara rweikumi n’itanu (kutamu ekitinisa abazaire)

Exodus 21:15 (respect for parents)

p)    Samwiri eyokubanza, suura ibiri, orukaara rweikumi naibiri(kumanya Ruhanga /mukama/omuhangi)

1 Samuel 2:12 (knowing the Lord)

Habw’abasiramu, haroho enkaara ez’omugaso ez’okusobora kwiha omu koraani nk’ebyokuroorwaho

For the Muslim community, there are also relevant verses which can be quoted from the Quran as examples

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